I believe communication is the key that unlocks a lot of prisons — the ones we build for ourselves, and the ones that get built for us by others.
I know this because I lived it.
In 5th grade, I was diagnosed with a severe lisp. I was the kid who started shrinking from rooms instead of filling them — convinced that what I had to say wasn't worth the way it was going to come out. That self-doubt is a particular kind of prison. It doesn't announce itself. It just quietly talks you out of the moments that matter.
What changed everything was a mentor. A coach who saw something I couldn't see in myself and gave me the keys to unlock what was already there. She didn't tell me what to say or how to say it. She witnessed what I was trying to do and helped me build on it. She coached the performer, not the performance.
And through speech and debate, I discovered something I've spent the rest of my life studying, teaching, and sharing:
Communication is a skill. Every skill can be learned.